Although Buenos Aires is a big, busy city, people take time out in ways that New Yorkers don´t. One of the things I love is ordering a cup of tea (or coffee) in the afternoon. Many people stop for a refreshment around 6pm, since they don´t eat until 9 or 10. You order a tea, and the waiter brings an entire tray of objects and places them one by one on your table: the cup, saucer and teaspoon; the metal teapot; the teabag in its wrapper or a selection of teas; several packets of sweetener; a napkin; and a small dish of cookies. It costs a dollar or less.
Another thing that surprised me was visiting the doctor. When I called to inquire about an appointment they told me that both of the doctors I had been referred to were booked through at least October. I explained that the problem was somewhat urgent (I´m okay, but b/c of tummy issues I´ve dropped 10 pounds in a month without dieting, and 15 since the summer). They suggested I call the doctor on his direct line and leave a message. That was Friday. On Sunday morning the phone rang at 8:45am. It was Dr. Jorge Schulte returning his messages. We discussed my problem and he instructed me to call the office Monday morning and ask for him so he could tell the receptionist to fit me in, which they did for Wednesday. When I arrived I had to wait more than an hour, but I figured that he was overbooked so that was to be expected. But then when he called me into his examining room, we spent nearly an hour together. In addition to noting my symptoms, asking questions, and examining me, we talked about George Bush, looked over some sheet music that he´s working on for a singing performance (which I plan to attend), and touched on politics.
My cleaning lady, Ani, and I have also become quite friendly. Last week when she came I went out to run errands, and since she was still there when I got back I asked if she´d like a cup of coffee. She didn´t take the cup and keep cleaning but rather sat down, and we had an interesting conversation about how since the ¨crisis,¨ as they call the national financial crash of December 2001, everyone´s standard of living has sunk. She was interested to learn that even in the wealthy U.S., Social Security is not really enough for retired people to live on. This week, we started off with a coffee since I hadn´t had my breakfast yet, and Ani ended up telling me that her son died in a car accident in July. She is devastated, medicated, doing her best to stay strong for her husband, their three older children, and their adopted little boy. She strikes me as someone with a huge heart, who started adopting kids when she was 17 because she felt bad for the orphans she was working with. I really feel for that family. Life can be so damn unfair and sad.
Well, my life these day is very fortunate. Tomorrow I have two features running in the Buenos Aires Herald, with photos that I shot. So the internship is good, I´m meeting people, I´ve started tango lessons, and I´m settling into this city that reminds me a lot of New York in its sophistication and convenience, yet is somehow warmer and more personal. Even the girl who waxed my legs gave me a kiss goodbye! Funny the things you experience when you are more than a tourist.